Today is the 8th
of August – such a very special day to me. Supposedly I should have a nice post
about my hubby and me to save this date.
As a matter of
fact, our marriage certificate has been done since July 17th but we
still chose 08.08 as our official marriage day due to its special meaning –
infinity times infinity. The number 8 seems to be my destined one for not only
me but him also.
8 is the number
of 8-year gap between us.
8 (August) is the
month he was born
8 is the last
digit of the year when I met and dated with him. Sounds ridiculous but it made
sense.
8 is the number
of our address now
8 of November was
also the first date of our official relationship
8 actually means
harmony, peace and balance – These are what we only hope for our marital life.
I would like to
write a long post about our love story when we were dating but I shall save it
for another post. Our marriage life so far is so good. We are soulmates and
share many similar habits, ways of doing things, characters, attitudes and
perceptions to look through any matter. Of course, we also have quarrels
sometimes but it is just because of our different lifestyle: I am messy,
clumsy, careless and absent-minded while he is such a well-organized, careful,
thoughtful, detailed person. You can imagine how our life would be *lol* At first,
he shook his head in dismay, though still attempted to alter my bad habit of
somehow throwing things anywhere and then forgetting immediately, taking
another wasted hour to find them when needed. Unfortunately, he finally retired
himself to the bleak fact that there is no way to change me, the only way to
adapt to this situation is changing himself.
Don’t laugh at me
and don’t judge either. I’m just a human-being. Everyone has their points. What
I wanna mention here is his tolerance and kindness. He learnt to accept who I
am, and certainly I am learning how to adjust my bad habit to meet his
lifestyle although mine is actually wrong. Sometimes I find it difficult to
deal with such a decent man like him since I’m not Mrs.Perfect at all.
Nothing for me to
complain about this man since the first days of dating until now. He must be
the most respected, virtuous and decent man I have ever fortunately met and
married. There was no wedding yet due to the pandemic but we are already connected
by souls and lives, more officially by the marriage certificate, by our parents
from both sides. Hopefully the pandemic shall pass through soon for a better
future.
We are not over
confident to say that we would be able to get happy for the rest of our life
from now on, but there is one thing for sure, we will fully cherish every
single moment we share together whether it is sad or happy because any state of
our emotions deservers to be cherished as husband and wife, as human-beings.
Next time, I will
share more about our stories here for you to keep. Thank you, this blog for
being such an invisible friend to me, saving all of my thick-and-thin memories
:)
Say cheers to us
now – Ryan & Hallie (08.08.2020)
Bliss,
Hal-
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