Happy life!!!

I should write this post yesterday because it was the turning point of my life, I mean it was one of the best day of my lifetime so I’d better mark it to remember. Yesterday, I was too busy sharing my happiness with my friends and beloved ones to have free time for blogging. Besides, today was not less wonderful comparing to yesterday. Hence, here I am to combine them together, rite?

If you do not believe in the law of attraction, you should consider my instance. I used to be unemployed for beyond one month while looking for the right job which must conclude enough points of my standard. Others may think it is impossible to look for a perfect job in this society, yet I somehow had that great belief in what I set because I defined exactly what I wanted. Days after days, I was frustrating to go for interviews at many companies, refused, delayed and even canceled within a few hours before the appointment because it was not what I wanted.

Then one day, BINGO I found the job with all the standards I had set before. It was whatever I had been looking for years since graduating from the university. Of course, I had to get through many tests and take time to pass anything they requested. So yeah, my about-to colleagues are friendly, kind, funny and nice to me even I did not start my first working day. They promised to treat me the lunch on Monday and asked me out for the movie haha Sounds cool. Most of them are foreigners and even Vietnamese must speak in English. Ain’t it perfect for me ha? :) ‘cause the tone and the way I express my opinions in Vietnamese often cause misunderstandings and my Vietnamese colleagues do not love me for this *frown* 

From the lovely joy, I decided to hang out today with Hara. We went to the movie “Crazy Rich Asians” and hung out until night. 

Something about the movie… excuse my language was not as good as I used to be, thus I am about to just write short random thoughts after watching the movie hah!

As I am also a typical Asian, the movie was so easy going through my mind. It was the fairytale as Cinderella meeting the Prince Charming and their ending was happy ever after as usual. However, the different thing here is Rachel Chu was not just a mediocre Cinderella sitting on a dusty cellar waiting for her prince to recuse. She controlled over her life and was a brave fighter.

I was impressed most at the scene when Rachel talked to Nick’s mother, she would be back to New York city not because she was afraid or thought she was not enough.

For a time, I was told to be not enough and I did believe in that. I hated myself and embraced a lot of negative thoughts, carried them like a burden on my shoulder and wondered why I was born on the Earth. Well, I must know that when I start to doubt about myself, at the right moment I am a loser and I make another’s judgment about me become true. My self-esteem was low :) How foolish I was!

You are the only person in this world defines who you are and how your value is. If you are easily influenced by others’ judgments and become exactly what they consider you, it is your problem, not theirs. You control your life, thoughts, mindset, standards and goals. 

Okay back on the point, the movie was interesting and inspiring me heaps. You must learn to love myself, respect yourself and become the best version of you first, mr.Right would find his way to you and fall for you because no one loves a person who does not love herself. Rachel is strong, smart and can fight for what she loves. I do admire her personal characteristics. When life gave her lemon, she would make lemonade. She was not kind of girl who would call her boyfriend starting to cry and asking him to help her out lolz~ That was so attracting lah!

To conclude, the movie was worth your time and I hope it would inspire you somehow to become better.

In the evening, Hara and I had milk tea drinks at a coffee shop nearby my house. We talked for hours about life, relationships, values, friends, happiness, families and self-esteem. It was a good conversation and we learned from each other. There were no gossips, dramas, bad news, negative stories or sorrows. The quality of our conversation was high and beyond common ones nowadays. 

I was under the impression as if I had received a medal when she said to me “Hallie, you have changed completely. I am so glad to know the new you. Always smile, think positively and be happy with every thing.”

This confirmation made my day. Seriously. I could not believe that I would be able to alter this much ^^~ I do appreciate what I have been through :3

I deserve the best, so don't settle for less!

Love

Hal