End of summer'14

Been a busy summer season in HCMC for half of month with countless dates from dawn to dusk, it was difficult to take time blogging or watching any movie. Today I finally got back home in the morning in an extreme good mood as my parents picked me up at the coach station and told me how much they had missed the kiddo named Hallie. It was merely over 2 weeks but I was under the impression that it had passed by longer than that, like a month because there is something unfamiliar in me…

Yes, I have changed so much that some people must remind me of this huge alteration. The dates with besties disillusioned me by pretty tough words which deeply touched me on the raw, though it came from one reason, they wished to reform me for good. Therefore, my alteration at the present is not surprising to my real friends but a big shock to so-called friends and strange ones.

These are pockets of lessons for this haliday:

#1 Relationships on social network are just in a virtual world including friendships and love and it is not real, from words to concerns.

It is impossible to love someone thanks to words only through a screen. Someone you have no idea about. Someone you don’t know anything at all. But I did. I believed in relationships in that virtual world, treasured them and used my heart to treat them like a fool while none of them is crazy enough to do the same thing to me. Well, I must have been the last one crazy idiot on the earth doing such unbelievable stuff for unknown people. Then I stopped and narrowed down my friend list carefully and started to only spend time with real friends who are always there for me instead of comforting by hollow words for politeness. Although we may get far away, at least we used to be together and understand each other so well in reality which is a sound basic to set up a long distance friendship and that is why we are still best friends after months or years not seeing the other’s face. By the way, Willian was correct to choose the girl right beside him instead of me who is so far away and barely touches and approaches as a true love would be. He should not be a fool like me, shouldn’t he?!

#2 Learn how to love, cherish and protect yourself.

Born as a girl, grown up to 21, you must behave like a mature lady not keep being a 21 kiddo. To love yourself, you are supposed to doll yourself up with make-up, wear high heels, deliver some polite manners and serious attitudes towards others, use your wisdom to attract men instead of speaking whatever you think immediately before considering. Make yourself beautiful as walking on the streets. Pamper yourself a good dress with a great appearance as meeting anyone, that’s the way you love yourself first, next is the way you respect your partner. 

You have to protect yourself once someone is about to hurt you. Be strong and talk back immediately if it is unreasonable. Don’t ever think being resigned would make a relationship better, in turn it would leave the enemy a good chance to hurt you next times.

#3 Be independent 

An independent woman is always appeal to men not only her inner strength but also potentiality to become an ideal partner in the future. Women should learn how to walk on their own paths all alone, make a highlight and prove the whole damn men in the world that what men can do, women have the power to make it, even better than they imagine.

#4 Get strong

Well, I’m not sure if I’m strong now. Still little sensitive sometimes but not always like I used to be anymore. I left the past behind and move on to find better things awaiting me.

#5 Give new comers a chance to prove

It is tough for new comers as they step into your broken heart. They must glue those broken pieces of heart together, then it, learn how to get out of the shadow of old ones. They even get to make much more efforts to approach to you, create new memories and make you feel happy as if there were no pain in your heart. It’s hard. Really hard. Don’t be afraid to welcome them to your life just for the sake of people who used to hurt you in the past because it only satisfies them with the idea “oh, my existence is so much meaningful to her that after me, she can’t move on. Poor!” Making up by a better life, choosing the right people and living happily for ever after are the real bitter slap on those old ones’ faces. Trust me and you will see.

#6 Gain more weight

I’m ridiculously skinny =.= I wanna be chubby to look cuter =)))

#7 Silence is golden 

Well, no need to explain :)

Gotta watch Pretty little liars and go to sleep now. Kinda tired and exhausted after a long day :p need more time to regain my energy :D miss mah blog so much :((( sorry I won’t be lazy again hihiu

Love

Hal